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so, we're moving, and it's so exciting.  i can't wait to go.  but that means i have to pack up everything and be in limbo for the next few weeks, and really - all i want to do right now is sleep.

<sigh>  why are guys so complicated?  i know you all are always complaining about us girls and the head games we play.  maybe it'sjust me, but i'm pretty damn honest about things, sometimes offensively so (and for that i apologize), but it's mostly because i don't like headgames, i don't understand how to play them, and they just f$%* everything up for ppl.  so, for all the accusations of women playing games, WHAT IS UP WITH YOU MEN?  can you *ever* make a decision and stick to it?  forget that, even, can any of you make decisions?  or is the hanging in limbo thing something that taught all of you back in yeshiva somewhere?  i can just see it now:

Rabbi (locking door):  he he, all those persky girls are gone now, boys.  time to learn!

Boys: no!  we don't want to!

Rabbi:  oh, trust me, you'll need this.  today we're learning how to keep women in our life without ever having to tell them what we want from them.  and, if you do well enough, i'll teach you tactics to jerk them back to you just when they get frustrated and decide to pull away.

yeah, that must be it.