somehow women got the idea from somewhere that all men care about is a hot girl and having sex all the time. and as much as we may see proof to the contrary, we always come back to this idea. it's crazy what we do to ourselves because of it.
first of all, i like hot men. i think they're pretty, and i enjoy looking at them. that does not mean i want to pursue anything beyond looking for a moment. i also enjoy looking at beautiful women, and i don't want to date them, either. as much as there may be a certain look that i find most appealing, the guys i date (and then care about and then find amazingly attractive and - dare i say it? sexy) don't always look like that. so why can't i take my own experience and apply it outward, and assume that other people (read: men) can appreciate someone on a purely esthetic level, yet still be more attracted to, say, me?
second, i know that sex or fooling around is definitely not the ikar in the relationships i model and pursue. but i can't stop thinking that that's what guys want, even when i know that the guy i'm with wants that and so much more.
well, here's a fun little article to play with my conceptions:
HOLDING hands and cuddling are rated more highly than sex by the average American guy, a new survey claimed today.
and just so you all know, i made lasagna (for the first time) today, and it smells awesome. yay dani!
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