Monday, August 16, 2004

smack chart

this horrid woman at work is not improving my sleep deprived mood.

went up to meet someone i have to work with as we design the site and she assumes (because i'm female and married) that i've been brought to help her do work gathering data.  she asks how much i dedicate to the site, i tell her it varies.  she asks how much time i can dedicate daily, i ask her what she needs.  she repeats her question, i repeat mine (thoroughly confused, of course).  she then bllows up about if i have time for her, i should just say so.

um, ok.

so i ask her what she needs the time for, and she says it's to collect email addresses.  so i tell her i do'nt have time to do that during the day, and she, brilliantly, launches into an attack on people not wanting to do such work - without ever stopping so i could tell her that what an asshat she is (not in so many words).

quickly retreated, went about trying to find someone to help her, and find taht *every*one here pussy foots around her.  was in the office when she bitched to someone over the phone about my unwillingness to help her.

we tried to find out how much work there is so we'd know who to assign to her, and she flipped out again, this time on the defensive.  i guess she thought we were "questioning" her - really we're just trying to get the fucking work done.

and people actually respect her instead of finding her incredibly offensive and counter productive.

excuse me as i go simmer in anger...

5 comments:

  1. 1. 'A visitor' posted on the Tue 17 Aug 2004, 1:06 am
    Just keep repeating to yourself, "health insurance."
    Meredith

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  2. 2. 'Dani Weiss' posted on the Tue 17 Aug 2004, 11:00 am
    are you kidding? i can't wait til we switch off of this crap insurance and start on YU's.
    in fact, i sometimes wich i was paid hourly, cause the benefits here do didly for me, and then i'd get to set my own hours (and earn more).
    ra.

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  3. 3. 'A visitor' posted on the Tue 17 Aug 2004, 4:18 pm
    I didn't realize the OU's policy was that bad. Never mind, then.
    Meredith

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  4. 4. 'A visitor' posted on the Fri 20 Aug 2004, 3:36 am
    so your actions affect your attitude and vice versa. of course youre upset about work lady, but speaking badly about her over the internet cannot be helping things (nor is it the right thing to do in itself). of course you need to vent, youre a human being, but you have a husband and maybe 1 or 2 friends for that. this has been said mussar. thank you :)
    concerned citizen

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  5. 5. 'Dani Weiss' posted on the Sun 22 Aug 2004, 6:47 pm
    thanks for the mussar - moral lessons are always appreciated.
    please beware that if you are sensitive to such things, you may want to avoid my blog, as i need to vent somewhere, and my husband's ear is not the spot i want to focus my negativity on.

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